Why is love challenging?
Love involves every single challenge you can possibly imagine! Real and mature love, a functioning relationship, requires maturity, which means you have developed your: awareness to reflect on your own growth education experience strong self-regulation skills communication skills troubleshooting skills accountability self-awareness knowledge of your roots and your family history and patterns going back generations. Self-care and Self-love. Financial Stability. Being able to hold the space for your partner - emotionally, spiritually, physically, mentally, and financially where required as a married couple. 50:50 is a myth - life does not work that way, sometimes it is more for one person, than for the other. Empathy, Kindness, Compassion, Forgiveness, Generosity, self-responsibility, strong boundaries, being able to differentiate between what is your own issue and what is your partner from a clear point of view setting and enforcing! Clear boundaries, pro-activity, a shared v...